When Xander Sielken left Hawaii for California in 2023 to pursue college baseball at West Valley College, he expected challenges, but not to suddenly support himself entirely.
During his redshirt freshman year, he was unexpectedly cut off financially and became responsible for rent, food, and daily expenses with no safety net. Determined to stay in school and on the field, he balanced full-time academics and baseball while working multiple jobs, including valet parking, cutting hair, and baking and selling homemade banana bread.
The pressure intensified in spring 2025 when he broke his hamate bone during one of his best seasons. Surgery forced him home to Hawaii for two months of recovery, where isolation and financial stress mounted. During this time, his four-year relationship also ended.
When it was time to return to California, he couldn’t afford the flight. In a powerful show of support, his teammates pooled funds to bring him back. Still recovering, he returned for the playoffs and delivered with a 3-for-4 performance in a key elimination game, helping West Valley finished second in the state.
“Those moments tested me in ways I never expected,” he said. “There were times when the stress, injuries, and uncertainty felt overwhelming. But I leaned on my faith, stayed focused on my purpose, and reminded myself why I started playing this game. The support from my teammates, coaches, and friends meant everything to me. They showed me I wasn’t alone. That experience changed my perspective and helped me become a stronger person and teammate.”
Now at CSU Monterey Bay, he has continued his rise, starting at third base and batting second while hitting .337 with 27 runs scored for the 21-5 Otters
Presented monthly since February 2022, the CalHOPE Courage Award honors student-athletes at California colleges and universities who have overcome stress, anxiety, and mental trauma associated with personal hardships and adversity. In addition to the recognition, a donation will be made on behalf of all honorees to support mental health services.